Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov EPUB & PDF – eBook Details Online
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- Author: Sherry Argov
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- Language: English
- Genre: Love & Romance, Dating, Mate Seeking,
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FROM DOORMAT
TO
Dreamgirl
Act Like a Prize and You’ll Turn Him into
a Believer
“Sex appeal is 50% what you’ve got, and 50% what people think
you’ve got.”
—SOPHIA LOREN
Meet the Nice Girl
Everyone has known a “nice girl.” She is the woman who will
overcompensate, giving everything to a man she barely knows, without him
having to invest much in the relationship. She’s the woman who gives
blindly because she wants so much for her attentions to be reciprocated.
She’s the woman who goes along with what she thinks her man will like or
want because she wants to keep the relationship at all costs. Every woman,
at some point, has been there.
Certainly, the average fashion magazine gives women ridiculous
relationship advice that makes it easy to understand why women are so
eager to overcompensate: “Play hard to get, then cook him a four-course
meal … bake him Valentine’s cookies with exotic sprinkles shipped from
Malaysia (just like Martha Stewart). Don’t forget the little doilies and the
organic strawberries that you drove two hours to get. Then serve it all to
him on the second date, wearing a black lace nightie.” And what is this a
recipe for? Disaster.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #
Anything a person chases in life runs away.
Especially when it comes to dealing with a man. With one caveat: If you
chase him in a black nightie, first he’ll have sex with you … and then he’ll
run.
Why does a man run from a situation like this one? He runs because the
woman’s behavior doesn’t suggest that she places a high value on herself.
The relationship is new, and the bond between them is relatively shallow.
Yet she’s already dealt him her best card.
The fact that she is willing to overcompensate to a virtual stranger
immediately suggests one of two things. He’ll either assume she is
desperate, or he’ll assume she is willing to sleep with all men right away.
Or both. What gets lost is his appreciation for her extra effort. Once a man
begins to lose respect for a woman because she is willing to subtly devalue
herself, he will also lose the desire to get closer to her. Nightie or no
nightie.
A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won’t kill herself to impress anyone. This
is why the woman he really falls in love with doesn’t serve a four-course
meal. And you won’t see her breaking out the fancy china, either. She’ll
start out cooking him a one-course meal. (Popcorn.) No fancy doilies. A
Tupperware bowl does the trick. She simply asks her guest, “Hey, do you
want the bag or the bowl?” Six months later, the same woman throws
together a meal and puts down a hot plate in front of him. And what does he
say to himself? “Man! I’m special!”
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